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From an early age boys and girls are taught that relationships are successfully obtained by performing “complementary” roles of cat and mouse, pursuer and pursued, the actor and the acted-upon.Consequently, girls learn to define romance as a noun — a subjective experience brought about by a man’s actions.
Consider that I was not socialized as a woman from birth; I never learned to expect the heteronormative tropes of romance and showing attraction.Boys, on the other hand, learn to define romance as a verb — something they must actively do to earn a girl’s affections.This socialization has immediate implications for all queer romance, but presents an even greater obstacle for a potential lesbian and bisexual pairing, as illustrated by the following quote from a very good friend of mine (who’s also a bi woman):“Honestly, I don’t even like men all that much. But they make me feel wanted and desired in a way that very few women ever do.As a result, is it really so hard to see why some gay women might feel wary or reluctant to begin a relationship with a bisexual woman?Recently, I sat down for coffee with a lesbian acquaintance of mine who’d been dumped a month earlier by a bi woman. ”After thinking on it for a moment, I told her that I didn’t.