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“You never know when there will be an emergency, when you’ll have to leave a date or cancel—and that might make her jealous,” Brott says.According to Fisher’s research, single moms are not looking specifically for a man with kids, but single dads are looking for a woman who is a mother.The kids may also struggle with either or both parents’ new significant others.“They may feel they’re betraying their mothers,” says Condrell, “and may keep them from getting close to new parents.” Rule #9: Make introductions cautiously This needs to be an extremely low-key, short meeting. Instead, have her come to your house, and set a time limit.Read on for our expert-backed rules on navigating the dating scene while still keeping your kids interests at heart.
"This speaks volumes to the kids about your lack of importance and focus on them," Fisher says.
“You have to explain that your dating has nothing to do with the marriage ending or whether Mom and Dad loved each other,” Fisher says.
It can be tricky, since sometimes if the mom isn’t dating yet, she may try to discredit your dating in front of the kids.
Rule #5: Avoid the revolving door Introducing women into your children’s lives too frequently can skew their perceptions.
“Children can get attached to them, and then if they disappear it can make children cynical and pessimistic about romantic relationships,” says clinical psychologist Ken Condrell, Ph. Rule #6: Be sensitive about when and how much time you spend on dates Never sacrifice time with your kids for time with a date, Fisher says.